February 2024
Gene Hyde writes: My friend Mark and I work in a lawn-mower-parts warehouse. Somehow Mark got the idea that his wife did not want a card on Valentine’s Day, but when he spoke to her on the phone he discovered she was expecting one. Not having time to buy a card on his way home, Mark was in a quandary. Then he looked at the lawn-mower trade magazines scattered around the office—and got an idea. Using scissors and glue, he created a card with pictures of mowers, next to which he wrote: “I lawn for you mower and mower each day.”
I recognize that’s really corny- even by my standards. But it got me to thinking how love is typically not something that remains stagnant, but over time- at least in a healthy relationship- it grows more and more. I think that’s true in both our human relationships and the one we have with God. Paul must have been very fond of the believers in Philippi. He wrote “God can testify [in effect saying “God is my witness”] how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 1:8) Paul had feelings down deep inside for these fellow Christians, a fondness for them because he was filled with Jesus’ love. And then he shares, “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight…” (verse 9). Sometimes we think that love is something that is totally based on emotion, sometimes making it almost illogical. But Paul seems to be saying otherwise. So, how does our love “abound more and more”?
In part, it involves “knowledge and depth of insight”. You’ve probably heard the phrase “To know me is to love me”. David Steckelberg used it in a poem saying, “To know me is to love me, Oh, not just superficially, But, my heart, my soul, my everything, To a hundred percent degree…” I think he’s right- generally. With many people, when we truly get to know them down deep, their personality, their passions, their most intimate thoughts, it’s then that we can truly love them. With some when we really get to know them well, it makes it harder to love them. It’s then that we love them despite their ugly side. But when we come to understand most people more intimately- our spouse, our family and friends, our church family- we come to love them even more.
That’s certainly true with our love for the Lord. The more we draw close to Him and get to know Him, the more we love Him. I think we become more intimate with Him through His Word, time with Him in prayer and a deeper connection with the Holy Spirit Who helps us bear the fruit of love. And that vertical love with God helps our horizontal love for others grow. I think that’s why Paul wrote, “May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you.” (I Thessalonians 3:12) It’s then that we can experience (as “The Princess Bride” teaches us!) “true love”. That’s when we have, as Peter wrote, “sincere love for each other, (and can) love one another deeply, from the heart.” (I Peter 1:22)
Happy Valentine’s Day, Jim
Spotlight Verse Philippians 1:9